Ubud, the cultural heart of Bali, is not only known for its stunning rice terraces and vibrant art scene, but also for its rich tapestry of traditions and ceremonies. As a family who has traveled to this enchanting island, we discovered that many of these ceremonies are not just fascinating cultural experiences; they’re also incredibly family-friendly. If you’re planning a trip to Ubud, let me take you on a journey through some of the most engaging ceremonies that you and your family can enjoy together.
The Joy of the Melasti Ceremony
One of our first experiences was attending the Melasti Ceremony. This is a cleansing ritual that usually takes place a few days prior to Nyepi (the Day of Silence). We witnessed families processing to the beach with offerings of flowers and fruit, dressed in beautiful Balinese attire.
As we joined the procession, my kids were immediately captivated by the colorful offerings and the rhythmic sounds of gamelan music echoing through the air. Surrounded by local families, we felt a sense of community as everyone shared smiles and laughter. For parents, this ceremony provides an excellent opportunity to teach children about Balinese culture and spirituality in a fun and engaging way.
Practical Tip
To experience the Melasti Ceremony, check the Balinese calendar for its timing relative to Nyepi. It’s often held at the beach, so plan to arrive early to secure a good viewing spot. Bring water, hats, and perhaps some small offerings for the kids to contribute—an engaging way for them to feel involved!
The Spectacle of the Omed-Omedan
If you’re looking for something a little more spirited, don’t miss the Omed-Omedan, a unique kissing ritual held in the village of Sesetan. While this ceremony is primarily for young couples, it’s fun to watch the playful chaos that ensues!
As we settled into our seats, we saw two groups of youth pull each other in for a comedic tug of war, followed by raucous cheering from the crowd. My youngest son was wide-eyed with excitement, especially when a few of the couples rushed down to give each other quick kisses—much to the entertainment of the onlookers. This lively atmosphere encouraged participation from the crowd, and my daughter even found herself swept into a dance with a local!
Practical Tip
While the Omed-Omedan usually takes place in March during the full moon, it’s best to check with local sources or your hotel for updates. Bring some rain gear; you might get splashed during the festivities! Prepare for a light-hearted and joyous experience!
The Sights and Sounds of Galungan
Another beautiful ceremony that’s family-friendly is Galungan. Celebrated every 210 days, Galungan signifies the victory of dharma (good) over adharma (evil). The streets of Ubud come alive with colorful Penjors (decorated bamboo poles) swaying in the breeze.
On our visit, we were invited to a family’s home where they were preparing offerings. The moment we entered, the children welcomed us with beaming smiles and handed our kids small offerings—all while giggling and sharing tales of what Galungan meant to them. Sharing meals, traditions, and even trying our hand at making offerings was a wonderful way to bond with local families and experience their deep traditions.
Practical Tip
If you’re planning to experience Galungan, ask locals if you can join in on their celebrations. Most are delighted to share their customs with visitors. This is a fantastic chance for kids to learn about the significance of the ritual in a personal way.
Embracing the Day of Silence: Nyepi
Though Nyepi, the Day of Silence, seems like an unusual choice for a family outing, it’s an incredible experience. The day is set aside for self-reflection, and the island goes quiet, with no lights, noise, or activity. It’s an entirely different way to experience Bali!
Our family spent the day at our villa, playing board games and engaging in storytelling. Later, we watched as the sunset draped the sky in brilliant colors—a perfect reminder of the beauty in stillness. You might find that the tranquility allows you to connect more deeply as a family.
Practical Tip
If you’re visiting Ubud during Nyepi, prepare your family for a day of silence. Stock up on books, games, and snacks the day before, and embrace the opportunity to disconnect. It’s a unique way to appreciate the beauty of Bali!
Final Thoughts
Attending family-friendly Balinese ceremonies in Ubud was one of the highlights of our travels. Each experience provided us not only with unforgettable memories but also an authentic glimpse into the rich cultural heritage of the island. As you embark on your own Balinese adventure, I encourage you to immerse your family in these experiences; they offer more than just entertainment—they foster an understanding and appreciation for diverse cultures.In the spirit of adventure, I hope you and your family find joy in the traditions that await you in Ubud, creating your own special stories along the way! Safe travels!
